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 Writing a eulogy for a person that has been like a family to you has never 
been easy. But sharing what you feel could help you ease your burden. You can 
use your grief to capture the emotion that you really feel. And you’ll be able 
to share it with other people who, like you, are also grieving a loss. Writing 
for a person close to you might have some of its advantages also. You’ll be able 
to share what your friend really was in a new light.
 Gathering some information about your dear friend would help you make a good 
eulogy. Share all your friend’s achievement is also a good start. Making your 
speech as personal as possible could also help you make your ideas flow. You 
could start with sharing when and where did you become friends and why did you 
remain as friends. Maybe you can add something that you always talk about or 
things that she’d always want to do but never got the chance. Describe some 
scenario that would depict your friend’s character. Share all the hardships you 
had faced just to get where you are right now.
 Having a theme for your eulogy is also important. That way you can take 
control on how you’ll set things. Say something that you would miss for your 
friend. Or anything that would feel incomplete now that she’s gone. Say 
something about her mannerism, her special traits. Share also things that your 
friend was able to impart in you. How your friend had inspired you.  Describe your friend as what she is to you. Also share if possible things 
that you do which her family is not aware of. If you have to include some 
negative traits of your friend write it in a way which makes it less of a bad 
thing. As much as possible share all the traits that made you like your friend.
 Always end your speech with hope and joy that wherever your friend is you’re 
sure that she is eternally happy. You could also use quotes like “Let’s not 
remember the way she died but remember the way she’d lived” or “Everything 
happens for a reason though we may not know it now eventually everything will 
become clear to us”. You can also tell the family that you also share with 
their sadness and are willing to help in everyway.
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